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Hope to Dream: Local Partners Give Fairborn Children the Gift of a Good Night’s Sleep

In Charities, Local News, Uncategorized on November 11, 2025 at 9:41 am

By Gery L. Deer

Editor

When we think about what makes a child healthy and safe, a bed might not be the first thing that comes to mind. But for many families in Greene County, something as simple as a bed can change everything.

On Friday, November 7, a group of volunteers, donors, and community leaders gathered at the Morris Home Furniture warehouse in Fairborn to do just that—change lives, one mattress at a time. The event was part of the “Hope to Dream” campaign, a partnership between the United Way of Greater Dayton Area’s Greene County office, the Fairborn FISH Pantry, Morris Home Furniture, donors, and volunteers. Together, they provided more than 60 beds and two cribs for families in need—complete with frames, box springs, and linens.

As volunteers lined up trucks and trailers outside the Morris Furniture warehouse, volunteers braved darkening November skies and looming rain to load and deliver beds across Fairborn. Inside, organizers smiled through the bustle, knowing the difference those deliveries would make before the day was over.

“We are proud to host this Hope to Dream event for the Fairborn community,” said Robert Klaben, executive vice president of Morris Furniture Company. “We’ve been doing this kind of work for more than 20 years, and it’s gratifying to know that kids will be sleeping in their own beds tonight.” For some children, that’s a first.

According to the nonprofit Sleep in Heavenly Peace, more than 2.2 million children in the United States don’t have a bed of their own—many sleeping on couches, air mattresses, or even the floor. Research shows that children who sleep well are more likely to perform better in school, develop emotionally and socially, and enjoy better long-term health. Lack of adequate sleep, on the other hand, can contribute to anxiety, behavioral struggles, and difficulty focusing while in class. That’s why Hope to Dream is about more than furniture—it’s about dignity, safety, and the opportunity to thrive.

“This is an opportunity to give children something that belongs to them,” said Tom Kelley, president and CEO of the United Way of Greater Dayton Area. “A bed gives them a sense of identity, safety, and security. It allows them to rest and dream, moving them out of often unsafe or unstable conditions. That’s very important to their development—and their hope.”

Now in its third year serving Greene County, Hope to Dream has become a signature partnership among the United Way, Fairborn FISH Pantry, and Morris Home Furniture. It also continues to grow thanks to an increasing network of local partners, including CareSource, Buckeye Health Plan, International Harvester Credit Union, Joseph and Amanda Jenkins, Jamie’s Tire & Service, Kroger, and others.

“This year we had so many generous people come together to make it happen,” said Rebecca Cantrell, Greene County Director for United Way of Greater Dayton. “Linens have already been delivered and Kroger donated gift baskets. The Greene County Public Library provided books so every child can start a library of their own. They’ll have everything they need for a good night’s sleep.”

(Left to Right) Jane Doorley, Executive Director of Fairborn FISH Pantry, Rebecca Cantrell, Greene County Director, United Way of Greater Dayton, Robert Klaben, Executive Vice President, Morris Home Furniture, Tom Kelley, CEO, United Way of Greater Dayton

At the Fairborn FISH Pantry, Executive Director Jane Doorley has seen firsthand how a simple gift like a bed can transform a family’s outlook.

“When families come to FISH, we talk to them,” Doorley said. “Some tell us their children are sleeping on the floor or sharing a bed with a parent. Others have just moved into their own apartment after struggling for years, but they have nothing to sleep on. The impact of getting their own bed is huge.”

She remembers one little dark-haired girl from last year’s event. “When she saw her bed, she was like, ‘Is this mine? Do I get to keep it?’ She couldn’t believe it, a bed that’s really hers.”

Doorley also recalled a mother who told her, “Once I got beds for my children, it was like a black cloud lifted. I felt like things were going to be okay. I was able to get a job, and my family’s just happier now.” That’s what hope looks like.

Hope to Dream reaches families, in part, through referrals from community programs like Greene County Family and Children First, which provides case management for United Way’s Strong Families program.

“Our mission is to help families increase their financial stability and meet basic needs,” said Brent Lewis, the agency’s director and chair of the Greene County Advisory Board for United Way. “Helping kids have a safe place to sleep at night is part of that. It’s foundational.”

By the end of the day, every bed and crib had found a home. And as rain fell over Fairborn, there were dozens of children drifting off to sleep—many for the first time—in a space of their own, under warm blankets, dreaming new dreams.

It may seem like a small thing, but for these families, it’s a turning point. Because sometimes, hope starts with something as simple as a bed. **

So many great partners helped out to make this event possible…

How You Can Help

United Way of Greater Dayton Area
Visit www.dayton-unitedway.org to learn more or donate.
Phone: (937) 225-3001

Fairborn FISH Pantry
Provides food and household assistance to Fairborn families in need.
Donations and volunteers are always welcome.
Location: 1149 N. Broad St., Fairborn, OH 45324
Phone: (937) 879-1313

Morris Home Furniture – Hope to Dream Program
A portion of every mattress purchase helps fund a bed for a child in need.
Learn more at www.morrisathome.com.

Here are some scenes from the day…

RC and Mr. Goodbar

In Children and Family, Local News, Opinion, psychology, Uncategorized on March 7, 2025 at 7:06 am

Deer In Headlines II

By Gery Deer

When I was 11, my uncle came to visit me during one of my many prolonged stays in the hospital. I had a reasonably significant surgical procedure and was confined to a wheelchair, so he sat in my room and regaled me with tales of life on the outside. He was my mother’s younger brother. His nickname was “Tuff,” though his real name was Gary – one of four in my immediate family. Since our families were close, nicknames were helpful, as you might imagine.

At one point during his visit, Uncle Tuff decided I’d been cooped up for too long and needed to escape for a bit. I wasn’t tethered to any wires or hoses at that point, so we made good our getaway. I’m not sure, but I don’t think I was supposed to leave the floor, and we were trying to be stealthy. I think he had given the nurses the heads-up and cleared it first, but I played along.

After a quick elevator ride, we arrived at a vending area, complete with snack tables and a microwave. He parked me at a table and dug into his pocket for change. A moment later, a Mr. Goodbar candy bar and a bottle of Royal Crown cola appeared in front of me.

Gary “Tuff” Sutton, Sr., his wife, my Aunt Phyllis, and their two kids, Pam and Gary, Jr. “Butch,” were fixtures in my home. My mother’s youngest sibling, he was the uncle I knew best. He taught me to play the piano, which, like the soda and chocolate, gave me a reprieve from the rigors of the hospital. I’ll forever be grateful.

In case you’re unfamiliar, the Mr. Goodbar is made by Hershey and is little more than your basic chocolate bar, but with peanuts. It’s not fancy, but after a week of hospital food, it was like someone had bestowed on me a feast fit for kings. For the next half hour, we knocked back our RCs and chocolate, and he did his best to take my mind off where I was – he was good at that.

Back in my room, he’d left me with an extra chocolate bar – plain Hershey’s this time – and gave the nurse another bottle of RC to keep cold for me. It was a good day, all things considered.

We lost my Uncle Tuff to lung cancer in 2005. Ironically, another memory associated with that day at the hospital was that he wasn’t allowed to smoke. It was one of the few times I remember seeing him without a smoldering Salem. He was around my life a great deal, and I miss him every day, especially when I sit at a piano – he taught me to play.

But of all the times we had later, playing music with our family band or just sitting around the kitchen table at the farm where I grew up listening to him and my dad tell stories, that one moment at the hospital will always stand out. That was when a little boy, uncertain of his future, forgot for a moment how badly he was feeling, all thanks to his uncle and a candy bar.

I guess the point of all this is that, as children, it’s incredible how things intertwine to create influential memories into adulthood. Then, when we’re grown, we often reflect on those moments, maybe to draw inspiration or clarity. Many events in our formative years leave an indelible imprint on our psyche to help shape our beliefs, behaviors, and aspirations.

Understanding the profound influence of these early experiences offers invaluable insights into how we relate to people and the world as adults. But I wouldn’t dig too deeply. As Sigmund Freud is fabled to have said, “Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.” In this case, a chocolate bar and a bottle of soda are just a chocolate bar and a bottle of soda.

These moments, whether joyous or traumatic, become the defining chapters of our personal narratives. I don’t really know what long-term effect that single event had on my overall growth as an adult. I know it wasn’t the chocolate that made it special, but rather my uncle’s relationship with me. But, on the rare occasions that I might indulge in a Mr. Goodbar, I still smile and remember.

So, when life’s daily challenges become too much, maybe it would help to think back to one of those moments when a simple kindness, and perhaps a chocolate bar, could bring a smile to your face.

TCN Behavioral Health Announces Annual School Supply Distribution Events

In Charities, Children and Family, Dayton Ohio News, Economy, Education, Local News, Uncategorized on July 20, 2023 at 4:57 pm

Fairborn, Ohio – July 18, 2023 TCN Behavioral Health Services, Inc. announces their annual School Supply Drive Distribution Events.

The 5 events will take place as shown below:
Monday July 31, 4-6 pm TCN Troy 1021 N. Market Street
Tuesday August 1, 4-6 pm TCN Fairborn 1825 Commerce Center Blvd.
Wednesday August 2, 4-6 pm TCN Bellefontaine 118 Maple Avenue
Thursday, August 3, 4-6 pm TCN Xenia 452 W. Market Street
Friday, August 4, 4-6pm TCN Urbana 1522 E. US Hwy 36

TCN annually collects school supplies and donations for the children in their service areas. In 2022 they provided supplies to more than 300 children and hope to expand that reach in 2023. The 5 distribution events listed above will include free pizza and beverages as well as school supplies while supplies last.

“New school supplies are essential to help prepare students for a successful year and support teachers in the classrooms,” says Tom Otto, TCN’s Associate CEO. “We hope that people will help TCN get more school supplies into the hands of more kids by donating and volunteering at the distribution events.”

TCN accepts donations of school supplies at all locations, or donors can shop the School Supply Drive Amazon Wishlist to have supplies shipped directly to TCN for preparation and distribution. The
organization also accepts monetary donations at https://tcn.jotform.com/202296368911965 by selecting “school supply drive” in the dropdown menu. Volunteers can get sign up to help at their local events here: https://tcn.jotform.com/223056028945962.

Founded in 1990, TCN Behavioral Health Services, Inc. is a comprehensive behavioral health agency dedicated to improving lives by providing clinically excellent and accessible behavioral health services. TCN provides mental health, substance use, and psychiatric services for adults and youth in Miami, Greene, Montgomery, Logan, and Champaign counties. For more information or to donate to TCN call (937)376-8700 or visit www.tcn.org.

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